I just want to address this:
here are so many other people on the forums who have the same issue.
First - site slowdowns are not that prevelant on the forums. I can say that because *I* am prevelant on the forums and they simply do not come up as often as implied by your statement.
In every one of the cases where it has come up the problem has been tracked down to badly coded templates - EE is flexible and powerful, that doesn’t mean you should use *every feature* multiple times in one template! A spider/bot attack, or a hosting situation, often in a shared environment, where there is some large amount of over-selling going on.
And there are other cases - where people are calling external services (Flickr used to be a huge cause of this) and those calls are slowing down the system - as you experienced here.
Ultimately, these forums are for technical support and so we get people here that are in need of assistance. It is *never* good to look at support forums as an indicator of if a problem is common. For instance - I have a sick cat, and I go to support systems for help with her - if you read those forums, you would think 90% of cats are very sick and that they’re a bad pet choice. I’m sure that we all know that is not true.
The same thing happens here. We have thousands of customers that will never come near the forums because they simply have no need of support. There is an even higher number that simply lurk, finding their answers and never posting a single question.
So while yes, you can look for posts about speed problems, and quite a few threads - that is not indicative of it being a common ExpressionEngine problem - it is not. ExpressionEngine itself has no inherent speed problems, it is extraordinarly fast.
Patrick, I do not mean to soapbox on your thread, and I do apologize - but I wanted to address that for future viewers of this thread.